A marriage-minded community only works if you can trust the room. Here is what we do to keep it real, and what we will never do.
Everyone takes a selfie inside the app. It is compared with their profile photos to confirm a real person is behind them. Nobody can match until they pass. The selfie stays private: it is never shown on a profile, and only you and our Trust and Safety team can see it.
Every memberFrom any profile or any chat. Blocking is instant, and the other person is not told. A report goes to a person on our team, not to a bot, and profiles that collect several reports may be hidden while we look.
One tapOther members see a rounded distance, like "about 6 miles away". Never a map pin, never a street, never a neighbourhood. You choose how far the app looks for you.
Distance onlySerendib is for people 18 and over who are building a life. We check date of birth at sign-up, and any account we find belonging to someone younger is removed.
18+A person on our team reads the report, looks at the account, and acts: a warning, a hidden profile, or a permanent removal. We keep a record of reports so patterns cannot hide.
Human reviewIn the app, in a few taps. Or by email if you can no longer log in. Your profile, photos, matches and messages are removed. Gone means gone. How to delete your account.
Your choiceThe full details are in our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service. If something on this page and something in those documents ever disagree, the documents win, and we will fix this page.
That is the room we are building. Come and be part of it.
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